35 Best Sexy Gifts

Jun 05, 2023

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Vibrators, lingerie, kinky games and more for the naughtiest people on your list.

If giving is your love language, have we got some sexy gift ideas for you.

Surprising your partner with a sexy gift isn't just an invitation to the bedroom. It's a thoughtful way to show them that you're paying attention to their wants, needs and desires. Gifting your loved one a new sex toy, a piece of sensual lingerie, a sultry scented candle or even a silly romantic game that can lead to canoodling is also a great excuse to try something new that just might end up in your regular rotation!

Of course, you want the gift to be well-received, and that means keeping the recipient's tastes top of mind. When it comes to intimate gifts, it's always best to discreetly find out your partner's preferences before going all in on a new bedroom accessory, lingerie style or even perfume, to ensure your present is welcomed with enthusiasm.

Below, we've rounded up some of our favorite sexy items to gift, some of which are intended to set the mood and others to add a little something to the act itself. There's bound to be something below that will fit the bill, but if you're looking for a bit more inspiration, be sure to check out our guide to the best romantic gifts for your partner, too.

There are two types of people in this world: Those who are always trying to start a game of truth or dare and those who would rather walk into the ocean fully clothed. This sexy version of the game might just help the former get the latter on board, though.

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For those who like to play with power dynamics, this discreet day collar looks like jewelry with its stacked hematite stones and sleek black stainless steel, but you and your Dom know better. Just make sure the two of you are on the same page about what it means and how you'll use it.

Even people with penises who think they don't like sex toys might find themselves persuaded by this disposable stroker. It's perfect for testing the waters, since it's low-cost and meant to last only a few uses.

No complicated rules, no long-winded instructions, just 50 conversation cards that run the gamut from spicy to downright naughty. Whether you've been together for a year or a lifetime, these will get you talking — and probably more.

Turn a sexy massage into a sensual experience with this handheld massager with 10 different settings. It'll get the knots out of your S.O.'s shoulders without torturing yours.

Keep things interesting with this hilarious playbook that includes 366 positions along with suggested accessories (stethoscope, cowboy hat, you get the idea) and side effects (leg cramps, uncontrollable giggles). It's a great gift for your sweetie or a fun gift idea for a bachelor or bachelorette party.

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Made from soft and flexible silicone, these handcuffs are perfect for both beginners and longtime restraint play enthusiasts. Bonus: There's no key to misplace.

Whether you've been together for two weeks or two decades, we could all use a little inspiration in bed. This boxed game is fun, sexy and just the right amount of cheesy to loosen things up.

If dice make you think of Dungeons & Dragons, let this sexy set change your mind. This set has 34 sides, which means 96 possible positions. Better stretch before you break 'em out.

You don't have to be a natural-born artist to make something beautiful with this naughty paint kit. Just lay out the giant canvas and get to work painting each others bodies. Before you can say "yes, right there!" you've got a sexy piece of art for your bedroom wall.

Subscription boxes are the gift that keeps on giving, and this one from the lingerie pros at Adore Me means their stash of lacy little things will never run dry. Available in A to G cup sizes with 30 to 46 band sizes and underwear and clothing sizes from XS to 4X, it's also relatively size-inclusive. They can keep what speaks to them, and send the rest back.

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You love your partner's body, so why not grab one of these sexy candles to show that her curves really get you going? They come in a variety of body types so you can celebrate whatever your goddess looks like.

This remote-controlled wearable vibe is as discreet as it is powerfully sexy. Slip it into your favorite pair of panties and hand your partner the controller for a titillating good time. This is a particularly great gift idea for couples in long-distance relationships.

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As adorable as it is classy, try out this crystal glass dildo for a friction-free experience. You can also dunk it in some warm or cold water for temperature play, to really mix things up.

If you've ever told your sweetheart that they look good enough to eat, up the ante with this lightly sweet body powder. It has a little bit of glimmer and a fun feather applicator to add a sweet something to your bedroom time.

Open up a new range of possibilities with a pillow specifically made for sex positioning. With hundreds of five-star reviews on Amazon, it also comes in several colors to match your bedroom decor.

Perfect for bachelor or bachelorette parties or a big swing of a present for any holiday or birthday, this kit comes with 11 — yes, 11! — sex toys. Need we say more?

Lighting a candle to set the mood is great, but using that candle as part of the fun is even sexier. This jojoba oil-based candle doubles as a massage oil and with notes of cedar, clove, amber and lemongrass, it smells sensual too.

Made with real cocoa powder, this edible body paint will make your sweetie taste that way, too. The heart-shaped bottle and pink brush are also pretty enough to give for any occasion.

If you've always wanted to try pegging, this four-piece set has everything you need. It comes with two dildos of different sizes, a harness and bullet vibe. Just add your favorite lube and you're ready to open new horizons.

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Lizz (she/her) is a senior editor at Good Housekeeping, where she runs the GH Book Club, edits essays and long-form features and writes about pets, books and lifestyle topics. A journalist for almost two decades, she is the author of Biography of a Body and Buffalo Steel. She also teaches journalism as an adjunct professor at New York University's School of Professional Studies and creative nonfiction at the Muse Writing Center, and coaches with the New York Writing Room.

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